Find your Balance

When you’re happy, it feels like nothing can break you. You are untouchable and sadness seems like an unknown world.

When you are sad, it feels like nothing can save you. Happiness is just a feeling you’ve heard about in fairy tales.

Why does it have to be all or nothing? It shouldn’t have to be all smiles or all tears. When did it become unacceptable to go through a hardship and find laughter in the sun? People will look at you as if there is something wrong – for why is that girl smiling when all she feels is pain? Turn the tables and there are those who are horrified by the tears of another – for why is that girl crying when she’s been given the world?

I’m here to let you know that it is okay..whatever you feel. It’s okay to wake up smiling from ear to ear, and then go to bed that very night crying in shambles. This is what finding yourself is all about. Life is about finding a balance between your sad and your happy. Listen to your own emotions and feed whichever one you need to at the time. Everyone grieves differently. It we just stopped judging one another on how we deal with trauma and triumph..I really think the world could be a better and much safer place.


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